As we grow, we all witness many different versions of what relationships look like.
These examples come from our parents and older family members, from friends, teachers, the media, books, and stories.
Then, as we grow older, we begin to form our own relationships and watch as our friends do the same.
If you have ever found yourself wondering about the health of your own relationship or are not quite sure what areas you and your partner need to work on, you’ve come to the right place.
In order to help couples better understand the signs of a healthy relationship, it is important to know the traits of a healthy relationship that define a positive relationship, and suggest that there is complete honesty in relationships between a couple.
There are several things to look for in a relationship. Here are fifteen signs your relationship is working and qualifies as a strong relationship.
This allows both partners to express their thoughts and feelings, to listen openly when the other is talking, and to be able to ask for clarification on things, they aren’t understanding.
2. You trust each other
One of the signs of a healthy relationship between couples is the ability to have a place where both partners feel safe.
This can only happen when trust is present and both of you feel supported, are able to talk freely and openly, and don’t question the other’s intentions or behaviors.
3. You’re honest with each other
Relationships are full of ups and downs, but the ability and willingness of both partners to be completely open and honest with one another, no matter what is vital if a relationship is going to last.
4. You support each other
A good indicator that a couple will succeed or one of the signs of a healthy relationship is when both the partners lean on each other and support each other during both the easy and the difficult times.
You’re on the right track if you are your partner’s biggest cheerleader and they are yours.
This creates true partnership and camaraderie within the relationship.
If you feel disconnected or frustrated about the state of your marriage but want to avoid separation and/or divorce, the marriage.com course meant for married couples is an excellent resource to help you overcome the most challenging aspects of being married.
Nancy Ryan is a Licensed Marriage & Family therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist and CEO of Relationship Therapy Center in Roseville, CA and Fair Oaks, CA and online in California. Therapists at RTC help individuals deal with anxiety, depression and self esteem issues; Couples improve their relationship, help coparent, and blended families adjust; Children and Teens to process their emotions and develop coping skills. We help with all areas of life and relationships.
Nancy has been featured in media including Fox 40, KFBK radio, Cox Communications, Psych Central, Elephant Journal, Bustle, Practice of the Practice Podcast, Practice of Therapy Podcast, and Grow a Group Practice Podcast. She is available as a relationship expert for print, radio and TV.
(Nancy Ryan is also listed in Best Marriage Therapists in Fair Oaks)