1. Does he think that he’s unique or special?
2. Does he think that he's great at a lot of things compared to most people?
3. Does he secretly believe he’s better than most people?
4. Do obstacles slow him down?
5. He's self-confident but caring.
6. Does he like to talk about himself?
7. Does he try to control you by imposing rules on your life?
8. Is he basically obsessed with controlling your behavior?
9. Does he often put his own needs ahead of yours?
10. Do you feel like he makes you feel like you're worthless?
11. How does he react to criticism or feedback?
12. Does he require constant admiration and attention?
13. How does he treat people he perceives as inferior?
14. Does he take advantage of others to achieve his own goals?
15. How does he handle failure or mistakes?