1. Has your man ever been physically aggressive to you?
2. Has your man ever threatened you before?
3. Do you feel like your man is putting you down on purpose?
4. Do you feel like your man doesn’t respect you?
5. Does your man criticize you all the time?
6. Does your man gossip about you all the time?
7. Does your man cheats on you and doesn’t care about you finding out?
8. Does your man take you for granted all the time?
9. Do you feel like your man doesn’t care about your feelings?
10. Does your man call you names when he is angry?
11. Does your partner call you names, belittle or humiliate you and tell you "I was just joking?"
12. Does your partner hit, kick, or bite you?
13. Has your partner threatened to destroy your property or something you love?
14. Does your partner isolate you from friends and family?
15. Does your partner withhold sex and affection as a way of punishing you?