1. How long have you been married?
2. You are happy with every second of living together.
3. You are making long term plans together.
4. You are helping each other unconditionally.
5. What do you like about your partner?
6. My partner knows what is really important to me.
7. How often do you have sex?
8. How do you feel about your marriage?
9. Touches, hugs, and kisses are regular every day.
10. Do you see your partner as the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?
11. Is your spouse your ‘first person.’
12. Do you have healthy boundaries in place and you live by them?
13. Can you both talk about issues and find a meaningful way forward?
14. Do you feel as though your partner always has your back?
15. Do you both laugh with, not at, each other?