1. Have they ever hit you?
2. Are you aware of them hitting other people?
3. Have they ever shouted at you in public?
4. Do you argue regularly?
5. Do you often think about separation?
6. Do they force you to do things that you hate doing?
7. Do they aggressively try to overpower you during a fight?
8. Do you feel anxious, depressed, or both these days?
9. Are they dismissive of you?
10. Do you think you need some time away from your relationship?
11. Have either of you been avoiding each other or deflecting heavy conversations?
12. Have there been any uncivilized conversations or arguments lately?
13. Are they good to your friends or family?
14. Do you see yourself more liberated without the shackles of your current relationship?
15. What is the current state of your relationship?