Questions Excerpt1. Do you know where you want to be in 5 years’ time?
A. Yes, we even know how we want to name our children
B. Generally yes
C. Not really and we don't agree on some matters
D. We have never talked about future plans
2. Does he mind if you leave dirty dishes in the kitchen sink?
A. No, he understands I must have hurried and forgot to clean
B. No, but he admits he doesn't like it
C. Yes, he grunts and complains
D. Yes, he starts a fight
3. How do you feel when you are away for a few days?
A. I miss him very much
B. I miss him but I can still concentrate on other things
C. I feel fine
D. I feel liberated
4. You are invited at a wedding. Do you take your boyfriend with you?
A. Absolutely! I even choose a new suit for him
B. Probably yes
C. I am not sure
D. No, and I hide the invitation
5. What is his reaction when you give him good news, like a promotion at work?
A. Says "Way to go!"
B. Texts back "Cool, nice."
C. Posts it on Facebook and tells everybody how proud he is
D. Congratulates me warmly and makes me a surprise
6. You’ve had a bad day and all you want is stay in bed and cry. Does he notice?
A. Yes, he knows it before I even say anything
B. He gives up on questioning if I say I am fine
C. I don't know, but he probably doesn't care
D. I take care he does not see my ugly cry face
7. What do you do with him when your mom comes to visit?
A. Ask him if he wants to go out together all three
B. Introduce him to my mother, of course
C. Tell him to come back when my mom leaves
D. Hide him and not even let my mother know about him
8. You are frustrated and need to vent for a bit – what does he do?
A. He gets it and lets me blow off some steam
B. He doesn't like the situation, but doesn't say anything
C. He tells me my issue is not such a big deal
D. He starts to fight with me
9. Is he willing to help you with menial tasks?
A. Yes, with him even laundry day feels like a date
B. Most times
C. Rarely
D. Never
10. You get an excellent job in a new city. What does he do?
A. Looks for apartments that are big enough for both of us
B. Is stunned and doesn't know what to do
C. Tells me he needs time to make a decision
D. Decides we have to break up
