1. When you express your feelings or concerns, how does your wife typically respond?
2. How does your wife react when you confront her about something that upset you?
3. Does your wife frequently change her story or deny saying things she clearly said in the past?
4. How often does your wife question your memory or make you doubt your recollection of events?
5. When conflicts arise, does your wife try to make you feel like you're overly sensitive or irrational?
6. How often does your wife use manipulation tactics, like guilt-tripping or silent treatment, during disagreements?
7. Does your wife often blame you for things that are clearly her responsibility or actions?
8. How does your wife react when you confront her with evidence that contradicts her statements or actions?
9. When discussing past events or arguments, does your wife insist that things happened differently than you remember?
10. How often does your wife make you feel like you're going crazy or losing your grip on reality during arguments?