Does your girlfriend yell and scream when you do something she doesn't like? Does she control you to an uncomfortable degree, is often jealous and insecure, and as a result, makes you feel empty and somewhat abused?
Being in a relationship that is emotionally abusive can make you feel you are walking on eggshells, being manipulated and used all at the same time. It can be mentally draining as some victims of emotional abuse have been conditioned to believe that they are the problem, when this usually is not the case.
Do you think your girlfriend is emotionally abusing you? Taking this ‘Is my girlfriend emotionally abusive’ quiz may help.
1. Are her needs and wants more important than yours?
A. Definitely
B. It depends
C. No
2. Does she blame you for everything?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
3. Is she the type to be insecure?
A. Yes
B. Somewhat
C. No
4. When she complains, is she overreacting by yelling and or screaming?
A. Yes
B. Somewhat
C. No
5. Does she heavily insult you?
A. Yes
B. At times
C. Never
6. When you give positivity to her, does she return it to you?
A. Rarely or never
B. Sometimes
C. Yes
7. Does your girlfriend humiliate you in public?
A. Always
B. Sometimes
C. Never
8. Would you consider her a control freak?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Not at all
9. Does she threaten you if she doesn't get what she wants?
A. Yes
B. It depends
C. No
10. Does she try to make you feel like you're insane?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
