1. Do you find it difficult to talk to your partner about what you really feel?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Yes, and it makes me miserable
C. No, I’m okay
2. Do you feel pressured into sex and then feel bad about yourself afterward?
3. Does your partner use religion to control and manipulate you into doing what he believes you should do?
A. Maybe once in a while
B. All the time
4. Is your partner aggressive and emotionally manipulative?
5. Do you often feel as if your partner is trying to make you feel inadequate?
6. Do you feel that your partner will not cooperate in resolving conflicts?
7. Do you often feel like your partner doesn't listen to you?
B. Yes, It happens all the time
8. Do you fear your boyfriend?
A. Yes, quite frequently
C. No, never
9. Do you feel that you are at risk of being physically harmed by your boyfriend?
A. A few times
B. No, never
C. All the time
10. Has your boyfriend ever excused his own bad behavior by saying it's your fault?
A. Absolutely, yes
B. Not really