It can be hard to tell if we are reading the signs correctly. Does he just want me as a friend? Is he into me? Or could he care any less? We can spend hours agonizing over this question and never come to a conclusion. Attraction is often necessary for romantic relationships, but we can be attracted to so many things. Sometimes attraction is immediate. Sometimes it grows. If you are unsure whether he is attracted to you or not, use this quiz to guide to find out his true feeling towards you.
1. Does he remember things about you and mention them?
A. Yes, he seems to remember all these small things like food I like or random stories I have mentioned
B. Not really, I mean, it’s not that he’s not paying attention, but he’s never said anything that made me feel touched that he remembered.
C. He must remember things about me, but he doesn’t mention them a ton. Sometimes though he can be thoughtful, like for my birthday.
2. Does he ever touch you just because?
A. I mean we touch but it feels like it’s just normal friendly touching
C. Now that you mention it, sometimes I find that he’s just playfully touching me or allowing his hand to brush by me, occasionally he even moves my hair out of my face.
3. Do you find him looking at you sometimes when you are not the center of attention?
A. Sometimes to make a joke
C. I feel his eyes on me at times for sure
4. Does he make eye contact when you talk?
A. Yes, sometimes he takes it away to look at my lips and stuff too, which is probably good, it can be pretty intense
B. Yeah, I mean not more than usual, but we definitely connect at times
C. Sometimes I suppose, he must, right?
5. You are hugging, what’s it like?
A. It’s nice, he’s a good hugger
C. It’s really good, he holds me pretty tight, sometimes I feel him scratching or rubbing my back a little, and his whole body is involved
6. Does he text you unprompted?
A. When I text him he’ll text back…eventually
B. Occasionally he will, to like tell me a funny story or make plans
C. Yeah, he asks lots of questions or just shares random things, he really tries to keep our conversation going
7. Does he find ways to get closer to you?
A. Yeah, if we are standing in a line he kinda scoots toward me, and when we talk he stands a bit closer to me than most people do.
B. Not that I have ever noticed
C. Just when it makes sense to, he doesn’t shy away from being near me for sure
8. Does he seem nervous?
A. No, he’s super chill with, me.
B. Not at all.
C. Actually, yeah a bit, occasionally he licks his lips or touches his glass while we talk, he can seem a little shy
9. What happens when he sees you?
A. He smiles, his eyes light up and his body turns toward me
C. I mean he smiles and waves
10. Does he make time to spend time with you?
A. We make plans and hang out, but it doesn’t feel like he goes out of his way
B. Yeah, he asks to hang out and usually if I want to he finds a way
C. We’ve occasionally hung out, but not much
11. You are walking down the street where is he?
A. In front of me
B. Right next to me, our hands sometimes brush
C. Near me but not right beside me