1. Are you honest with your partner, even in times where it might upset them?
2. Which of these things do you feel is appropriate to hide from your partner?
3. Which of these would you not share with your partner, even after a significant time of being together?
4. Do you think it is essential to share your desires and dreams if they differ from your partners?
5. Have there been times you were intentionally dishonest with your partner about your feelings?
6. Do you think there are certain things in relationships that are better left unsaid?
7. If you have been dishonest, what has motivated the dishonesty?
8. Is it okay if your partner doesn’t prefer to be honest with you always?
9. Do you ever find yourself keeping private certain thoughts or behaviors that you felt your partner would not be able to tolerate?
10. The level of true intimacy in a relationship directly correlates with how transparent and vulnerable partners can be with each other. On a scale from 1-4, 1 being the lowest level of transparency and vulnerability and 4 being the highest, how would you rate yourself.
11. When faced with a difficult situation, do you and your partner trust each other to tell the truth, even if it may be uncomfortable?
12. How often do you and your partner make promises or commitments to each other and follow through on them?
13. In your relationship, how often do you and your partner openly communicate about your feelings and concerns?
14. Are you and your partner comfortable discussing past mistakes or regrets without judgment or defensiveness?
15. Do you and your partner share important information about your personal lives, such as finances or health concerns?
