1. Has he ever asked for nudes?
A. Yes, persistently.
B. No, he hasn’t.
C. Yes, once, but I refused.
D. Yes, a few times.
2. How does he express himself in bed?
A. He skips the foreplay everytime.
B. He has specific oral needs in bed but is mindful of my needs too.
C. He waits for my orgasm.
D. He is fun but lacks respect for my orgasm
3. How do you feel when you have sex with them?
A. I wish they were a little tender.
B. I feel that he feels victorious everytime we have sex.
C. I feel euphoric and refreshed.
D. I feel a confusing mix of good and bad feelings.
4. Do you spend time after sex?
A. Yes, we do.
B. Sometimes, if he has no prior engagements.
C. He does not even cuddle. He leaves right after.
D. Only if I ask.
5. Does he talk about his crushes?
A. Yes, he does, but so do I.
B. Not really.
C. He is quite secretive.
D. Yes, but I feel uncomfortable.
6. Do you like watching movies or series together?
A. Movies, sometimes, but no series yet.
B. On some rare occasions, but it is usually followed by sex.
C. No, we haven’t done that together.
D. Absolutely. It is not always about sex with us.
7. What are your dates usually like?
A. Eat, sex, leave, repeat.
B. Dinner, chat, sex, cuddle and breakfast the morning after.
C. He follows a pattern but stays if I ask.
D. He is only fun in bed.
8. Has he asked you to go down on him?
A. Yes, in an insistent manner.
B. No, he hasn't asked.
C. No, but he has talked about it.
D. Yes, he doesn’t like it otherwise.
9. Do you enjoy talking to him?
A. Yes, I love it.
B. We don’t talk.
C. Yes, he is a sweet talker.
D. Sometimes, not always.
10. Do you see him in your future?
A. Frankly, I don’t.
B. Yes, I do.
C. Yes, sometimes.
D. I’m not sure I do.