1. How often do you and your spouse talk to each other?
2. How do you feel after talking to your spouse?
3. How often do you fight?
4. What do you usually fight about?
5. How do you feel when you see your spouse?
6. Has either of you had an affair?
7. How often do you keep secrets from your spouse?
8. Has either of you experienced a traumatic life event recently?
9. I no longer feel like we are on the same team. My partner is the antagonist.
10. How often do you have sex?
11. Are you happy with your sex life you share with your spouse?
12. Are either or both of you addicted to substance abuse?
13. How easily are anger issues resolved between you and your partner?
14. Is there some emotional distance between you and your spouse?
15. Are there any financial issues or differences in your marriage?