1. Who handles your family finances?
2. Does your partner spend money only on things they want but never on things you want?
3. Is access to your family money restricted by your partner?
4. Who makes the big money decision in the relationship?
5. Are you accountable by requirement to your partner on every cent you spend?
6. Does your partner access your joint bank account without informing you?
7. Does your partner gamble with your joint finances?
8. Do you have an open mutual discussion on finances with your partner?
9. Has your signature ever been forged by your partner?
10. Have you ever been coerced into taking out loans or buying properties?