1. Have you been cold to each other recently or presently?
B. Not at all
2. How often do you help each other with domestic chores?
A. As often as possible
B. We do our chores separately
3. How much do you hate taking care of another person’s illness?
A. To the brim
B. I don’t hate it at all
4. Have your partner or you ever been violent to each other?
A. Yes, sometimes
B. Not a question
5. Is there a boss in the relationship?
A. Yes, I am/ they are
B. We want each of us to be happy
6. Has anyone of you made or have ever felt uncomfortable with each other in a public space?
A. Yes, we both have
B. Not as yet
7. Are you friends with some of each other’s friends?
B. Yes, but at a distance
8. Do you ever get jealous of each other’s professional success?
A. Sometimes, but not in a negative way
9. Who pays the bills?
A. They do/ I do
B. We have divided our roles
10. Do you think about love or habit when you think about your romantic relationship(s)?
A. I think about getting rid of this habit
B. I think about affection