When something fun and exciting is going on in your life, is he the first person you reach out to?

No, I usually eventually tell him though

Do you think he likes you more than you like him?

No, I think we like each other equally

Do you expect him to do more for you than you do for him?

No, never. It’s equal, I think

If you have to choose between him and your friends, what will you choose?

I like to have a healthy balance. If I already have plans with either one, then I will do that. If not, I balance my time.

It depends on the situation. I try to give him my time when I can

Usually my friends unless he asks me to do something exciting

Do you have clear boundaries and expectations with him?

No, I am pretty easy going and make exceptions when I need to

Yes, I know what I want and what I don’t want

How do you feel about posting things about him or pictures of the two of you on social media?

That doesn’t bother me at all!

I don’t post much regardless, so I rarely post about him

No, I don’t want my business all over social media like that

What do your friends know about him?

Everything pretty much. I am always talking about him.

Just the basics. He has met them a few times.

Not much. They see him more as a friend than as something serious.

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 603 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

Am I using him? If this thought has come to your mind, maybe you are taking advantage of the guy's niceness. Or, it is even possible that you are simply overthinking. Whatever be the reality, take this quiz and find out now!