1. Are you always the one making plans in the relationship?
2. Does your partner give you gifts or compliments often?
3. Do you often feel like you're carrying the relationship all by yourself?
4. Do you have to force your partner to do the things you like?
5. Does your partner take initiative in the relationship?
6. Does your partner appreciate you or show affection?
7. Do you ever feel unwanted or ignored when you're with him?
8. Do you think he is unnecessarily irritable when he's with you?
9. Does he verbally or physically abuse you?
10. Are you happy when you're with him?