Am I The Problem In My Relationship Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 9011 | Updated: Nov 13, 2024
Am I the Problem in My Relationship Quiz

Relationships are rarely perfect.

Along the way, issues can arise unexpectedly. It's unfortunate, but conflicts can stem from various sources, and almost anything can lead to disagreements. What truly matters is your ability to work through these challenges and move forward.

However, if you find that the same arguments keep resurfacing and they focus on your behavior or character, it’s essential to reflect on whether you might be contributing to the problems in your relationship. To gain clarity, take our 'Am I the problem in my relationship' quiz and discover if you might be at the heart of the issue in your life.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you compare your relationship to others' relationships?

A. Yes, always

B. No, my relationship is unique and special

C. Well, my partner compares me to other people

D. Yes, but I involve my partner

2. Do you think your partner listens to your concerns?

A. No, they often brush them off

B. Sometimes, but I feel like I have to push

C. Yes, they usually make an effort

D. Yes, but I try to express myself better

3. Do you frequently talk about the future together?

A. No, I prefer to keep it vague

B. Sometimes, when things feel right

C. Yes, I like planning together

D. I don’t bring it up, but I’m open to it

4. Do you feel comfortable sharing your feelings with your partner?

A. No, I usually hold back

B. Sometimes, but I worry about their reaction

C. Yes, most of the time

D. Yes, but only when it’s a good time

5. Do you often seek reassurance from your partner?

A. Yes, constantly

B. Occasionally, when I'm feeling insecure

C. Not really, I trust my partner

D. Sometimes, but I try to be independent

6. Do you feel like you’re always right during disagreements?

A. Yes, I often do

B. Sometimes, but I can see their point

C. Not really, but I struggle to admit it

D. No, I value both perspectives

7. Do you get angry easily during arguments with your partner?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Only when my partner gets angry

D. No, I try to maintain my composure

8. Do you say words that hurt your partner when you are angry?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Yes, if my partner says something that hurts me

D. No, I stay away from them until I calm down

9. Do you apologize to your partner when you are wrong?

A. Yes, I always do

B. No

C. Sometimes, if my partner will also apologize

D. Yes, I also try to solve the problem

10. How do you react when your partner corrects you?

A. I try to listen and understand

B. Why should I listen when my partner is not perfect as well?

C. I do not like my partner's tone

D. I listen to them

11. Are you the one starting arguments?

A. Sometimes

B. Yes, all the times

C. Most of the time

D. No, never

12. Do your partner’s friends hate you?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. I've got no idea

13. Do you try to manage your partner’s income?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. Yes, but it's rare

14. Are your mutual plans based on your needs only?

A. Yes, mostly

B. Some of them

C. Very few of them

D. No, not at all. It’s a mutual effort

15. Are you romantic with your lover?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. I try but it’s not perfect

16. Are you supportive enough of your lover?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. At least I try

17. Are you faithful to your lover?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. Yes, but only when we are together

18. Are you too possessive of your lover?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. Maybe. I don't know

19. Are you the main one breaking up when you feel like it?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. I think about it but never act upon it

20. Are you selfish when it comes to love?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. Most of the time

D. No


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