1. Do you feel generally happy and content with your life?
2. Can you handle rejection or disappointment without excessive distress?
3. Are you able to set boundaries and stick to them?
4. Can you comfortably spend time alone without feeling anxious or lonely?
5. Are you able to communicate your thoughts and feelings effectively?
6. Can you handle criticism without feeling overly defensive or upset?
7. Do you maintain a balanced life (work, hobbies, friends, etc.) outside of your romantic relationships?
8. Can you recognize and control your emotions effectively?
9. Can you accept and give love and affection without feeling uncomfortable?
10. Are you able to compromise and find solutions during conflicts without resorting to aggression or withdrawal?