Love is an intense feeling of deep affection for someone, while lust is an intense desire or craving for someone. Lust is usually related to sexual desire and can simply be a short-term enjoyment or pleasure from a relationship. Love has more to do with commitment and genuine intentions.
Take this ‘Am I in love or lust’ quiz to find out the true nature of your feelings for your significant other.
1. Do you end up spending more time indoors or outdoors?
A. Both, as there should be a balance
B. Mostly indoors
C. Both, as long as we are together
D. We don’t spend that much time together
2. Are you comfortable being emotionally vulnerable around your partner?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Not really
C. Yes, I can be vulnerable in all forms
D. No, not at all
3. Have you had a chance to meet and spend time with each other’s friends ?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Not really
C. Yes, we’ve met a few
D. No, not at all
4. Do you know how their last relationship ended?
A. Yes, we have discussed that deeply
B. We haven’t discussed that
C. Yes, we have
D. No, that hasn’t come up
5. What do you do when you go to the movies?
A. We discuss the movie before and after we watch it
B. Make out
C. We make out and also discuss the movie
D. Watch the movie
6. Do you notice small things that make them happy?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Not really
C. Yes, sometimes
D. No, not at all
7. When you get upset, what does your partner do?
A. Gives me a hug and comforts me
B. Starts kissing me
C. Hugs and kisses me to offer comfort
D. Nothing
8. When you start talking about my feelings with your partner, what does he/she do?
A. Listens to me and tries to understand me
B. Holds me
C. Holds me and listens to me
D. Leaves the room
9. Have you ever said “I love you” to one another?
A. Yes, of course!
B. No, I don't think so
C. I don't know
D. No, never
10. What did you do for your last anniversary?
A. Had a romantic dinner and exchanged gifts
B. Spent the whole day in bed
C. Went out for dinner then spent the night in bed together
D. Had a big fight
11. How do you feel when you look at your partner?
A. Lucky
B. Turned on
C. Lucky and aroused
D. Normal
12. How did it go when you introduced your partner to your family?
A. They impressed my family and I felt proud
B. We couldn't keep our hands off each other
C. They impressed my family and we couldn’t keep our hands away from each other
D. I have not introduced them to my family
13. What do you love most about your partner?
A. Their personality
B. Their body
C. Everything!
D. Nothing
14. How do you feel when your partner hugs you?
A. Proud
B. Aroused
C. Happy and aroused
D. Embarrassed
15. How long have you known each other?
A. A few years
B. A few weeks
C. A few months
D. A few days
