7 Key Factors Contributing to the Decline in Marriage Globally

Marriage has long been seen as a cornerstone of love, family, and stability… yet something seems to be shifting. Around the world, people are marrying later, choosing to live together without vows, or sometimes skipping the ceremony altogether.

Is it simply about modern freedom, or is there more at play?

For some, the idea of marriage still feels timeless and sacred; for others, it feels like an outdated tradition that doesn’t quite fit today’s realities. Economic worries, changing cultural values, and personal priorities all weave into the story.

The truth is, the decline in marriage isn’t just about statistics—it’s about the evolving ways people define connection, commitment, and the kind of future they want to build!

What does the decline in marriage look like globally?

Around the globe, the picture of marriage is shifting in ways that would have seemed surprising just a generation ago.

Are fewer people getting married?

Countries like Japan and South Korea are seeing record-low marriage numbers, partly linked to rising costs of living and changing family expectations. At the same time, cohabitation has become far more common, and for many couples, it feels just as valid as a legal union.

According to Maggie Martinez, LCSW:

Many people enter marriage without the emotional tools to navigate conflict, leading to disconnection instead of deeper intimacy over time.

The United Nations has noted that in several regions, fewer marriages mean fewer children, leading to long-term population concerns.

But what does this really show us?

Perhaps that people are reimagining what commitment, stability, and love can look like today… and that’s a powerful shift!

Why the fight or flight mode?

Now, the question arises, why’s there such a taboo on marriage these days?

Why are fewer people getting married?

Many people today are less willing to put in the effort required by marriage. Personal freedom and self-fulfillment often take priority over long-term commitment and sacrifice.

Maggie Martinez Reid highlights that:

In today’s fast-paced world, meaningful connection is often replaced by digital distractions, leaving less space for vulnerability and presence that lasting marriages need.

A strong desire for control also pushes some to avoid marriage or end relationships quickly, fueling the global decline in marriage. With fewer couples choosing to wed, many also delay or reject parenthood—raising concerns about future generations.

2. People prioritize individuality over anything else

Although society and traditions have evolved considerably in recent times, some people still value the age-old traditions and beliefs regarding marriage.

Maggie Martinez adds that:

The rise in unrealistic expectations, shaped by media and social comparison, can set couples up for disappointment rather than partnership.

However, the youth value their individuality more than anything else. They do not believe in these age-old traditions and fear losing their identity after marriage. Today, fewer are willing to compromise their personal choices, beliefs, or lifestyle for the sake of a union.

• Remember this: Marriage requires compromise, but when individuality is deeply valued, people hesitate to give it up. Protecting one’s identity often outweighs following traditions, reshaping how relationships and commitments are formed today.

3. Avoiding legal complications

Rising divorce rates have made many couples cautious about marriage. The legal battles, financial settlements, and emotional strain that often follow separation feel overwhelming to those who have seen it happen around them.

As a result, marriage is increasingly viewed less as a symbol of love and more as a binding contract. For some, the logic is straightforward: if there’s no marriage, there can be no divorce to worry about.

• Remember this: For many, love feels easier to nurture without legal strings attached. Avoiding paperwork and obligations gives couples flexibility, even if it means forgoing the traditional stability that marriage was once believed to offer.

4. Many people are opting not to have kids

In recent years, more adults are choosing to remain childfree—and not just because of financial or practical concerns. For some, the decision stems from wanting greater personal freedom, flexibility, or time to focus on careers and passions.

Others worry about the costs of raising children, the instability of the economy, or even the environmental impact of adding to the population.

• Remember this: Choosing not to have children is deeply personal. While it reduces the traditional push toward marriage, it also reflects new freedoms—where happiness isn’t tied only to parenthood or family obligations.

5. Couples can live together without being married

Cohabitation has become one of the major reasons for the decline in marriage. In the past, living together without being married was socially unacceptable, so couples often married as soon as possible. Today, many choose to share a home without feeling the need for legal vows.

Because the family got involved, and the ticket out (divorce) was not as easy as a breakup, couples used to ride out the waves and wait through difficult times. Therefore, it can be said that with more freedom and more ease, the decline of marriage has arisen.

• Remember this: Living together without marriage offers flexibility and freedom, but it also means couples may not feel the same pressure to stay during hard times, reshaping what a long-term partnership looks like.

6. Shifting cultural and social values

Cultural norms around marriage have changed dramatically. Once considered the central marker of adulthood, marriage is no longer seen as the only—or even the most important—life milestone. Education, travel, career success, and personal growth often take precedence.

Social acceptance of singlehood has also grown, reducing the pressure to marry. In many societies, people now celebrate independence and flexibility as much as, if not more than, traditional family roles.

• Remember this: Cultural values don’t vanish; they evolve. Where once marriage symbolized adulthood, now it’s one of many paths people take. Independence and growth feel just as celebrated as settling down.

7. Changing gender roles and expectations

Traditional gender roles once placed marriage at the center of a woman’s identity and a man’s responsibility. But with shifting expectations, men and women alike are redefining what fulfillment looks like.

Women no longer feel pressured to marry for security, and men face fewer cultural demands to “provide” through marriage. This freedom, while empowering, has naturally contributed to fewer people viewing marriage as essential.

• Remember this: As gender roles evolve, marriage is no longer tied to duty or survival—it’s about choice. When people don’t feel pressured to marry, relationships take on new forms and meanings.

What are the broader consequences of the decline in marriage?

Fewer marriages don’t just affect couples—they ripple through families, communities, and even entire societies. Some changes can feel liberating, while others raise big questions about the future.

What happens when marriage no longer plays the same central role it once did?

Here are a few possibilities to consider:

• Family structures evolve: With fewer marriages, households may look different—more single-parent homes, blended families, or chosen families built around friends and community.
• Birth rates decline: When people marry less, many also choose to have fewer (or no) children, leading to concerns about shrinking populations in some countries.
• Economic patterns shift: Marriage has long been tied to shared finances, home buying, and child-rearing; fewer marriages may change housing markets and consumer trends.
• Social connections redefine: Marriage once provided built-in companionship and community ties, but people may now seek deeper friendships or alternative support systems instead.
• Policy challenges grow: Governments must adapt—rethinking pensions, childcare, and eldercare—as traditional family structures no longer serve as the default safety net.

Can marriage still remain relevant in the future?

In many ways, yes—it still holds meaning for countless people, though perhaps in different ways than before. Marriage may no longer be the automatic life path, but it continues to offer comfort, stability, and a sense of shared purpose for those who choose it.

• Later-life marriages are becoming more common
• Partnerships are being redefined with equality in mind
• Symbolic or spiritual unions still carry deep value

As traditions evolve, marriage doesn’t disappear—it transforms. For some, it’s less about social pressure and more about personal choice. And while not everyone feels called to it, marriage can still be a beautiful way to honor love, commitment, and connection in a changing world.

Watch this TED Talk in which Dr. Emilia Roig questions whether marriage as an institution is coming to an end, exposing its patriarchal roots and urging us to rethink its role in today’s society:

Rethinking love and partnership

The way people view love, family, and partnership is changing… and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. While the decline in marriage can feel worrying at first glance, it also reflects new freedoms, evolving priorities, and fresh ways of building connection.

Some find deep fulfillment in marriage, while others choose cohabitation, singlehood, or nontraditional families—and all of these choices carry meaning. What truly matters is not the form a relationship takes, but the care, respect, and love that people bring into it, day after day.

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Rachael Pace is a noted relationship writer associated with Marriage.com. She provides inspiration, support, and empowerment in the form of motivational articles and essays. Rachael enjoys studying the evolution of loving partnerships... Read more and is passionate about writing on them. She believes that everyone should make room for love in their lives and encourages couples to work on overcoming their challenges together. Read less