Many marriages end in divorce, so it seems that many people realize after marriage that their marriage is not contributing to their happiness anymore. There are multiple causes that lead to dissatisfaction when it comes to marriage. It can be because of partners spending long hours at work, failing to handle the change that comes with children, infidelity, or not being pleased with the partner’s performance in bed. There are, however, marriages which function very well, but this requires partners who are both happy and who work hard to ensure that they evolve together.
Take this fun ‘Is your marriage bliss or a miss’ quiz and find out if your marriage is destined to last.
1. What is your usual disposition?
A. Happy and joyful
B. Calm
C. Indifferent
D. Angry
2. Do you find yourself comparing your relationship to other couples?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Often
3. Have you ever had bad times in your marriage?
A. Yes, and we decided to move on
B. Yes, but nothing serious
C. Not yet
D. Yes, and we are still affected by it
4. Is your marriage helping you grow?
A. Yes, absolutely
B. I'd say yes
C. Not really
D. No, on the contrary it is limiting my growth
5. How would you describe your marriage?
A. Healthy
B. Rewarding
C. Satisfactory
D. Bad
6. Which marriage quote suits you?
A. "The secret of a happy marriage is finding the right person. You know they're right if you love to be with them all the time." - Julia Child
B. "A good husband makes a good wife." - John Florio
C. "It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages." - Friedrich Nietzsche
D. "When a man opens a car door for his wife, it's either a new car or a new wife." - Prince Philip
7. Do you feel happy every day in your marriage, at least for a moment?
A. Absolutely
B. Most times
C. Sometimes
D. Rarely
8. If there is an issue that is bothering you, who is the first person you talk to about it?
A. My spouse
B. My parents
C. My friends
D. Someone at work
9. How do you spend a rainy evening?
A. We cuddle each other
B. We invite some friends over
C. We clean the house together
D. We spend time separately, like watching different stuff on TV
10. Do you keep score of each other’s past mistakes?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Often
11. Do you both share common goals for the future?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, a few
C. I’m not sure
D. No, I don’t think so
12. Are you comfortable being emotionally vulnerable around your partner?
A. Yes, for sure
B. I think so
C. I don't think so
D. No, I feel uncomfortable
13. Are you able to be there for your partner when they are feeling low?
A. Yes, for sure
B. I try to do that
C. I'm not sure
D. No, no really
14. Do your friends and family think you are a good match for each other?
A. Yes, for sure
B. I think so
C. I'm not sure
D. No, I don't think so
15. Do you desperately miss being single?
A. Yes, not really
B. Not really
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, for sure
