125 First Date Ideas to Make Your Date Fantasting

Have you just summoned the courage to ask out that person you’ve been trying to land a date with for months and now need some help in coming up with the best first date idea? First dates are important since the first impressions we leave on someone can significantly impact what it eventually leads to.  

Or, are you on a dating app and tired of suggesting the same safe bar/café/restaurant for your first meetups? Here is an exhaustive list of first date ideas to choose from.

125 first date ideas to have the best date ever

There is a large variety of activities, from the typical to the atypical, so you are sure to find something that will make you stand out in the crowd or at least have your date thinking at the end of the evening, “Wow, that person put a lot of thought into our first date!”

Check out this research that talks about first date expectations. So, for the sake of your date’s expectations, do put in some effort. Do not show up on the date in your home clothes. Make some effort to dress up so they know it is important to you.

Once you have set realistic expectations for the first date, you can explore the examples mentioned below to make your first date memorable. 

• Good first date ideas

If you are trying to figure out what to do on a first date, do not be too hard on yourself. You want them to like you, but trying too hard will only have the opposite effect.

Pick a place or activity that has the potential to be fun and exciting. Here are some such examples that you can consider for yourself:

1. Create graffiti together 
2. Put Legos together
3. Plant seeds randomly 
4. Yard sales cruising
5. Draw each other’s portrait
6. Do a science experiment 
7. Pretend to be a tour guide or art expert

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8. Make a new dessert recipe  
9. Donate blood together
10. Find your way to a place with just a compass and a map
11. Power out date night
12. Go to a karaoke bar together
13. Join a meetup together
14. Find your way out of an escape room
15. Go hiking
16. Visit a go-kart track
17. Ziplining together 
18. Write a dirty limerick and have some wine
19. Have a water gun/balloon fight 
20. Play hide and seek
21. Dress each other in ridiculous outfits

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22. Photography walking tour
23. Play video games 
24. Join a pottery class together
25. Have a music lesson together

• Best first date ideas

Good first dates can leave a lasting impression that determines the direction that your relationship with your date takes. A point that is often highlighted in couples counseling. 

26. Rent a luxury car and cruise
27. Opt for a sports activity you both suck in
28. Build a fort
29. Antique shop visit
30. Be creative with some sidewalk chalk

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31. Accomplish a mission 
32. Impersonate an ultra-wealthy couple
33. Try kayaking together
34. Go to an auction

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35. Make a time capsule 
36. Join a workout class together
37. Play a round of mini-golf
38. Volunteer an evening for a good cause
39. Have fun while trying rock climbing together
40. Catch a comedy night
41. Take a cooking class
42. Watch a film under the stars
43. Go to a concert together
44. Sunset walk
45. Tour an art gallery or museum
46. Go to a rink and try ice skating together
47. Organize a picnic in the park
48. Be a tourist in your city
49. Go to the zoo
50. Play a board game

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• Cute first date ideas

You should try to pick first date activities based on what you think or know your date likes. It can ensure that your date has fun and can also appreciate that you have taken their taste into consideration.

You can pick from the examples mentioned below while remembering to be friendly towards your date. You should be nice to everyone, especially someone you are meeting on a first date.

51. Feed the ducks or swans
52. Yoga in the park
53. Make bookings for a date
54. Enjoy the sunrise together
55. Go running together
56. Visit a burlesque or drag show together
57. Stop by an open house
58. Create a vision board
59. Take a meditation class
60. Buy funny gifts for each other
61. Share each other’s favorite spot
62. Bike rides in the park
63. Get an aura reading
64. Go to a sports event
65. Look through a bookstore
66. Visit a brewery together
67. Do you both have dogs?
68. A flea market visit
69. Go to a botanical garden
70. Watch the fish in an aquarium
71. Enjoy a ferry ride
72. Have fun in an art class
73. Have some beach fun
74. Join some dance sessions with your partner
75. Horseback riding 

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• Great first date ideas

Things to do on a first date sometimes bring a lot of pressure because they can make or break a connection that you are trying to explore with someone you like.

76. Go clubbing
77. Go to a hunted site
78. Create a campfire
79. Ride a hot air balloon
80. A specialized tasting
81. Tour to candy or chocolate factory 
82. Fly a kite 
83. Bird-watching in nature
84. Catch a lecture
85. Put a puzzle together
86. Play Twister
87. Find a record in Guinness Book to break 
88. Take compatibility tests

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89. Go through old photographs
90. Is there a funfair in town?
91. Quiz Night at the local bar
92. The Farmer’s market
93. Ethnic restaurant or tea room
94. Get your palm read
95. The Planetarium
96. A poetry reading
97. Meet up at the arcade
98. Participate in a political rally
99. Go bowling
100. Jump around in a trampoline park

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• Casual first date ideas

Fancy is not the only route that you can consider taking in first date ideas. You can pick a simple thing to do that offers you both the chance to talk without the pressure of an imposingly grand date.

You can pick from the plans mentioned below but remember not to use your phone too much. Answering an important call or replying to an urgent message is okay, but it is a red flag if you are on your phone too much.

Connect with your partner by keeping the technology aside and truly getting to know each other.

101. Visit a thrift store with them and look for unique things 
102. Play a fun game of laser tag
103. Go to a theme party
104. Attend a concert for an artist your date likes
105. Rewatching your favorite movies with each other
106. Making a song playlist for them and listening to it together
107. Going to a florist together and making the perfect flower arrangement for each other
108. Attend a food festival with your date
109. Attend an open mic event together
110. Attend a stand-up comedy show where you can laugh together
111. Invite them over to play games on your PlayStation
112. Bake something delicious together
113. Watch a classic movie together
114. Go plant shopping together
115. Ask each other fun questions to understand each other better. 
116. Walk around the zoo together
117. Plan a scavenger hunt for her that will lead to your date at a comfortable lunch
118. Slow dance with each other
119. Lie down in the open and stargaze together
120. Get a meaningful gift for them to make them feel extra special
121. Go restaurant hopping at your favorite stop
122. Set a picnic in front of a picturesque view of nature
123. Go and pick some fruits with your date
124. Share stories in front of a bonfire
125. Go to a dog or cat cafe with your date

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Some commonly asked questions

Here are the answers to some pressing questions about first date ideas that can help clarify the doubts that you may have:

• How can I impress my date on the first date?

Different people get impressed by different things on dates. Some like it when their date is someone who can make them laugh, while others are impressed when someone shows genuine interest in what they are saying. 

You can impress a date by being kind and looking out for them. Be confident about who you are and honestly present yourself to ensure less misunderstanding in the future. 

• What makes a woman memorable to a man?

A woman can be memorable for a man if she is confident and considerate. Also, if she carries herself well, a man is bound to remember her. 

Usually, no two people are identical to each other; hence, a woman who is not pretending to be anyone else can leave a lasting impression because it would be hard to find someone else exactly like that.

The bottom line

First dates are magical and can be the beginning of something great. You may end up finding the love of your life, your soulmate, or it might just become a hilarious story to tell your friends. Either way, you should make sure you are comfortable and happy and have fun while you are at it. 

Make sure that no matter what you are doing, you can focus on listening to your date and making them feel valued by asking them relevant questions. And make sure you seek their consent before initiating any form of intimacy.