14 Naughty Sex Ideas For Couples For A Steamier Sex Life

Relationship satisfaction is closely tied, not only to emotional but physical intimacy as well. Surely there are some aspects of naughty sex to try that you are curious about, which could spice your sex life.

The chances are that your spouse may be just curious about the same aspects of naughty sex as you are. It means that, if you are willing to try, you might be able to turn fantasy into reality with some sex ideas.

Now that’s the perfect way to spice up your sex life, don’t you think?

To inspire you and help you along, we’ve created this list of naughty sex ideas that people fantasize about.  

All you need to do is to gather the courage to initiate the conversation about naughty sex with your spouse so that you can find out what your spouse is curious about and what they aren’t.  

Perhaps you can use this list of hot sex ideas as a prompt by printing out a copy for you and your spouse and then ticking which aspects of naughty sex you’d like to explore and compare results after.  

Just checking off your naughty sex fantasies and sexual ideas will start to get the blood flowing and take your sex life up to a new level.  

The ultimate list of naughty sex fantasies and sex ideas

These are some of the milder naughty sex ideas. These naughty ideas for couples can be your starting point, and you can always expand if you are more extroverted sexually.

• Get tied or ‘cuffed’ up

This is one of the most exciting sex ideas that will give you and your spouse an instant head rush. You have to give in to your spouse if you are cuffed up. Don’t just tie up the arms though, go for the legs, too, for extra naughty sex. 

• Have naughty sex stuff in a car

There’s the risk factor, the steamed-up windows, and the compactness of the experience that makes this a wild and oh-so-naughty sex idea that everybody should try at least once in their life. Add it to the list of your to-do list of naughty sex ideas pronto! Just make sure that you are aware of the laws related to having sex in a car.

• Have phone sex

Not quite ready for phone sex just yet? Start with sexting. It’s much easier to initiate and your great naughty sex acts while sexting will warm up to proper dirty talk. 

• Use a sex toy to please yourself

Naughty sex moves like these might take confidence and trust, but it will drive you both wild if you can find the courage. You’ll enjoy the naughtiness of your spouse’s eyes as you enjoy yourself, and your spouse will be turned on by watching you turn yourself on. Naughty sex ideas like these for some couples are going to be things they warm up to in time.

• Use a sex toy on your partner

Increase intimacy with new ideas to improve relationship satisfaction! Surprise your spouse with a fun or curious sex toy experiment. It’s a naughty sex idea that will probably inspire more experiments in the future, taking your sex life to new heights. 

• Watch porn with your partner

Seeking new ideas for sex?

We doubt you’ll make it to the end of this naughty sex strategy without getting distracted… Ahem! But we don’t doubt that you both won’t enjoy yourselves.

• Have sex at the not-so-usual places

It’s risky, hot, fast, and heavy, plus it will put a flush in your cheeks and a spring in your step. Think sex in the kitchen, sex on your washing machine during the spin cycle, on the stairway, on your living room couch, in your childhood bedroom – just get creative!

• Have sex in the rain

Here’s one of the new sex ideas. If you have a private space where you can get drenched but there’s no chance of being caught, then good for you! The sensations of rain and sex well, that’s sensual for sure.  

• Make a sex tape

This naughty sex idea probably needs to be reserved only for the partners you trust deeply. But it will be fun to do, and fun to watch after. However, a word of caution again. Such risque sex ideas can turn extremely risky if it’s not done with a person you know, like the back of your hand.

• Enjoy sex on your hotel balcony

Sun, sea, sand, sex, and balconies – once again, the risk factor involved in such sex ideas is what makes this naughty sex; make sure you are not having this kind of naughty sex in a country where you can get arrested for it and locked up if you get caught.

• Give your partner a handjob while he’s driving

You might need to concentrate on safety first, but if your spouse can handle it, this is a whole new level of naughty sex that will build up to something more because there will be nothing your spouse can do about it – since they are driving! Unless you decide to incorporate the car sex into this plan too! That makes for two sex ideas rolled in one. 

• Explore new sex positions

There are so many sex ideas for exciting sex positions to explore, and all are widely available online for naughty sex pleasure.

• Wake your spouse up with a naughty handjob

This naughty sex tip will be a pleasant surprise for your spouse. It makes for one of the hottest, naughty sex ideas to try out and pump up the heat first thing in the morning. 

• Go to a strip club

One of the naughty sex ideas that might put you out of your comfort zone will probably put you in a naughty mood! 

If this isn’t enough naughty sex for you, check out more naughty sex ideas listed below too. Now surely this bonus compilation of great sex ideas and naughty sex tips will keep your sex life buzzing for a year or two, won’t it? 

• Talk dirty to your spouse
• Roleplay
• Play sex games
• Spend the evening naked together
• Have cozy sex in front of a warm fire (ok, so this is not naughty sex, but it is delicious and should not be forgotten in your ideas for sex )
• Eat your dessert off your partner’s intimate parts
• Masturbate while your spouse watches
• Masturbate together
• Browse a list or book of sex positions together
• Read erotica together and pile on more sex ideas info to try out later
• Have a quickie right before you are supposed to be somewhere important
• Take turns in dominating each other
• Explore as many sex toys as possible
• Have rough and fast sex

In the TEDx video below, Amy Color talks about how you increase intimacy in the relationship and sexual satisfaction. What is an orgasm, and what does chocolate have to do with it? Can you save a sexless marriage? What’s the difference between porn, masturbation, and reality?

With these new sex ideas for marriage, you both are sure to enjoy the utmost satisfaction of marital bliss.