1. Do you and your fiancé have the same values and priorities?
2. Does the parenting partner set boundaries and address misbehavior from the little ones?
3. Does the parenting partner struggle with making decisions out of guilt, fear, or shame?
4. Does the co-parent still have an overbearing influence or relationship over the parenting partner?
5. If your partner’s children were to be rude to you, would your partner address this?
6. Do you feel at ease when your potential stepchildren are around?
7. Do the children say they wish their parent would not remarry?
8. Are you ever afraid this marriage could end in divorce?
9. Does your fiancé hide their financial details from you?
10. Is your fiance ever dishonest to you?
