1. How do you behave when something is bothering you?
A. I calmly tell to my partner what is wrong
B. I retire for a while and talk about it later
C. I deal with it alone
D. I give my partner the cold shoulder and hope he/she will understand what's wrong
2. Do you mind your partner having a friend of the opposite sex?
A. Not at all
B. I feel a bit insecure, but do nothing about it
C. I keep an open eye on it
D. I become jealous and ask him to end this friendship
3. Do you ever give in to avoid a conflict with your partner?
D. Almost all the time
4. You like swimming very much, but your partner is afraid of water. How do you cope?
A. He can read a book on the shore while I swim
B. We can have separate activities sometimes
C. I compromise and discontinue my swimming sessions
D. I become upset and resent my partner
5. Your child has a friend you don’t like. What do you do about it?
A. I strongly advise them to stop seeing that kid
B. I wait and see if anything bad happens
C. I forbid the relationship
D. Tell the child my concerns and let him or her make the decision
6. Which thing of the following list would you teach your child?
A. Expressing emotions freely
B. Being non-judgmental
C. Being proud of who they are
D. Being first among their peers
7. Do you like implementing new ideas into the bedroom?
B. Yes, although I get lazy about it sometimes
C. It's important, but I am not that creative
D. I prefer routine
8. Do you mind discussing about past relationships?
A. No, as long as we don't talk about this topic way too much
B. Sometimes I feel insecure about this topic
C. No, because I wonder if there are still feelings involved
D. No, I feel like I am compared with people
9. Can you accept constructive criticism?
B. Yes, if he/she doesn't criticize me too much
C. No, but I try to appreciate it
D. No, I can't handle any kind of criticism
10. Do you think spouses should exchange gifts?
A. I think it is nice to make a surprise
B. Yes, practical things
C. Yes, but the receiver should pick the gift
D. I don't think it's necessary for spouses to exchange gifts