1. How often do you tell each other that you love them?
2. Even though we’ve gone through difficult times, I can tell my children that they have a mother/father worthy of their respect.
3. I can tell you some of my spouse’s life dreams.
4. Even when we’re having bad days, I know that my spouse would drop everything to support me.
5. Our sex life is mostly satisfying.
6. My spouse is supportive of my personal interests and goals.
7. Do you sleep in the same bed at night?
8. My spouse makes me feel safe, secure, and loved.
9. We love talking and spending time with one another.
10. We generally agree on basic values and goals in life.
11. How often do you express appreciation for small acts your partner does?
12. Do you feel your partner listens to you and understands your feelings?
13. How often do you engage in activities or hobbies together?
14. Do you feel your partner respects your opinions, even if they disagree?
15. How often do you and your partner laugh together?
