1. Has your boyfriend caused any arguments or damaged any relationships with friends or family members?
2. Do you feel isolated?
3. Does your boyfriend ever make threats of things he will do if you were to leave or “disobey” him, causing you to feel stuck in the relationship?
4. Does your boyfriend make “rules” for you that don’t ever apply to himself?
5. Does your boyfriend deliberately call you when you are out with friends?
6. Do you argue with your boyfriend frequently?
7. How does your boyfriend compliment you on a new hairstyle?
8. If you confront his behaviors, how does he react?
9. Which one of these is he most likely to say to you?
10. Does your boyfriend question you about every little thing you do, demand to see who you are talking to, and expect full access to your social media accounts?
11. Does your boyfriend know all of your passwords?
12. Do you wish you had more freedom in your relationship?
13. What do your friends and family think of your boyfriend?
14. How often does your boyfriend give you uplifting compliments?
15. When you two decide to go out, who picks the location?
