Have you ever questioned, “is he breadcrumbing me?” while dating someone? Getting to know someone who seems a little mysterious? Maybe enough messages trickle into your phone that you feel sure they’re still interested. rnAfter all, if they didn’t like you, they’d stop messaging, right? In reality, breadcrumbs people generally want to keep you interested, even when they have no actual plans to build a relationship. rnSo, suppose an intelligent person likes you and introduces themselves as a single on the dating app. In that case, they continue to text even if they see you are interested in them or maybe in the case of a dating app, where the match is introduced as single. rnIn that case, what exactly is going on in his mind? How badly do we deceive ourselves? Then how can we find out whether someone is breadcrumbing us or not? This quiz gives answers to all these questions and more!
1. Does he make concrete plans?
A. Yes!
B. Sometimes
C. No, never
2. Are his messages inconsistent?
A. Yes!
B. Just, sometimes
C. No
3. When you call him out…
A. He immediately pays more attention to you
B. He pays more attention to you for one week then backs away again
C. Sometimes pay attention, sometimes not
4. His messages mean…
A. Nothing!
B. A lot!
C. Sometimes nothing, sometimes a lot!
5. Does he make plans with you at the eleventh hour?
A. Yes!
B. No, never!
C. Sometimes
6. Does he reveal his feelings?
A. Yes
B. Once in a blue moon
C. Nope
7. Does he let you go completely?
A. No, he will suddenly connect with me again if he feels I am losing interest in him
B. I don’t know, but probably he respects my decisions
C. I’m not sure
8. Does he show signs of defensive or passive-aggressive behavior?
A. Yes, all the times
B. Just sometimes
C. No, never
9. Does he push you off when you make plans?
A. Yes
B. Depends on his mood
C. No, never
10. Does he only show interest in hooking up with you?
A. Yes, but he does not seem interested in spending non-physical time together
B. I’m not sure
C. No, we spend time together all the time!
