1. Has your boyfriend ever said anything to you about liking men or indicated that he may have been curious about or attracted to men when he was younger?
2. On the beach, who do you think your boyfriend would notice or make comments about?
3. Does your boyfriend ever make any homophobic comments?
4. Does your boyfriend watch gay porn, or has he watched it in the past?
5. Have you ever caught him doing anything online or through an app that made you question his sexuality?
6. Does your boyfriend seem sexually attracted to you or interested in having sex with you?
7. Has your boyfriend ever had sex with a man?
8. Does your boyfriend’s mannerisms, lack of masculinity, appearance, or how much time he spends on himself looking good have anything to do with your suspicions?
9. Is your boyfriend more touchy-feely with other men than you are comfortable with?
10. Does he seem preoccupied with other people’s sexuality or seem very interested when other people talk about coming out/homosexual encounters?
11. Has your boyfriend been emotionally unavailable?
12. Do his fantasies involve other men?
13. Does he check out other men or women?
14. Have you noticed him sharing intimacy beyond friendship with men?
15. Do you feel confident in confronting him about his sexuality?