1. Do you speak with respect?
2. Do you put yourself before your spouse at your expense?
3. Do you communicate your needs clearly?
4. Do you communicate about plans?
5. Do you expect your spouse to complete you?
6. Do you respect your spouse’s no?
7. Do you allow them to control themselves?
8. Is there any physical & mental abuse?
9. Do you both understand each other's apology languages?
10. Are there any sexual limitations in your marriage?