1. Your husband tells you about the saddest moment in his childhood. What is your reaction?
2. One late night, your husband decides to open up to you and tell you some of his secrets. What is your reaction?
3. You notice something is bugging your husband. What do you do?
4. Have you ever criticized your husband’s disclosures?
5. Your husband won’t open up to you. What do you do?
6. Why do you think he is unable to express his emotions?
7. Do you feel the need to fix your husband when he shares his vulnerability with you?
8. Did you make him feel ridiculed after expressing his emotions?
9. Your husband is crying because someone said something hurtful. What do you say to him?
10. How often do you say “We need to talk”?
11. Does your husband sit and talk to you at the end of each day?
12. Are you prone to emotional outbursts?
13. Do you share emotional things with him?
14. Have you two been through emotional things together?
15. Do your friends rely on you for emotional support?
