1. Does he find a way to be near you no matter what you are doing?
A. Now that you mention it, yes
B. Sometimes
C. When I sit down he moves away
D. Well, yeah, I mean we’ve always sat by each other.
2. Do you feel his eyes on you in class?
A. Not really
B. Yeah, and he looks away sometimes when I turn
C. Yeah, but then when I notice he makes fun of me
D. Sometimes, I guess, yeah
3. Has he asked your friends about you?
A. Well, not really, he knows all my friends well, it’d be kind of weird
B. They wouldn’t talk to him
C. Actually, they did say he was poking around
D. Not really but he has been talking us all a bit more
4. What do your friends think of him?
A. They hate him
B. Oh, we all love him, but just like a friend
C. They think we would be such a cute couple
D. They think we would be good together, but don’t really get him
5. When you pass by him what does he do?
A. He smiles at me and sometimes even says something nice
B. He makes fun of me or just completely ignores me
C. He’s nice enough, sometimes says hi
D. He high-fives me and the rest of the gang
6. Does he ever find an excuse to touch you?
A. Just pushing me and stuff
B. Yeah, like if we are sitting at a table, his hand often slides over near mine
C. Not really, that’s just how we play together. It’s always been that way
D. Sometimes he does, but I guess I have not really noticed much
7. Have you talked much?
A. Yeah, of course, we talk all the time
B. Yeah, we’ve been talking a lot more actually, he’s even called
C. Definitely a bit, just at school and stuff
D. Only if you count him being mean to me
8. Does he tease you?
A. Yes, but I kinda like it, it’s very fun
B. Tease is a mild word…mercilessly mock might be more accurate
C. Yep, just as friends do
D. Not really
9. If you get together for a project what do you think he would do?
A. You know those fake vomiting gestures, that probably
B. I think he’d be really excited
C. Not sure, he might be happy, but he’d try to act cool
D. Get into an unstoppable chatter
10. Has he ever asked to hang out?
A. He doesn’t have to ask; it’s assumed
B. Yeah, he asked me to hang out alone
C. Yeah, he asked me to hang out with him and his group
D. Not in a million years
11. How does he react when you talk about other boys?
A. He gets a little quiet or changes the subject
B. He makes fun of me or the boy I mention
C. He doesn’t seem to care much
D. He seems a bit interested but doesn’t say much
12. Does he compliment you?
A. Yes, he often says nice things about me
B. Only to make a joke or tease me
C. Only to make a joke or tease me
D. Sometimes, but not always
13. Has he ever shared something personal with you?
A. Yes, he has told me about his family or personal life
B. Not really, he keeps things very surface level
C. A little, but nothing too deep
D. Sometimes, but it’s rare
14. How does he act around you and your friends?
A. He seems to focus more on me even when others are around
B. He often ignores me or makes jokes about me
C. He treats me the same as everyone else
D. He talks to me sometimes, but not always
15. Does he remember details about things you’ve told him?
A. Yes, he often brings up things I’ve mentioned before
B. Not really, he seems to forget or not care
C. Sometimes, but not always
D. He remembers some things, but not much
