How do you envision your ideal living situation in the future?

Exactly the same as my partner's vision

Similar, but we have some differences

Completely different; we want different things

Do you agree on whether or not to have children?

We're mostly in agreement, but details vary

No, we have opposite views on this

How do you see your careers evolving?

We have similar career goals and support each other

Our career paths are different, but we try to support each other

Our career aspirations clash or don’t support our relationship

What are your financial goals as a couple?

Completely aligned, from savings to investments

We agree on major goals but differ on how to achieve them

We have very different financial priorities

How do you spend your leisure time?

We enjoy the same activities and often do them together

We have some common interests, but also enjoy separate activities

Our interests are completely different

What is your approach to dealing with conflicts?

We tackle them together, with an eye on our future goals

We manage, but sometimes our methods differ

We struggle to find common ground when resolving conflicts

How do you plan for major life events (e.g., buying a house, retirement)?

We plan together, with shared goals and excitement

We have a general plan but differ on some specifics

We have not discussed this or have very different plans

Do you share the same lifestyle goals (e.g., travel, living abroad)?

Yes, our lifestyle goals are completely in sync

Partially, we agree on some aspects but not all

No, our lifestyle aspirations don’t match up

How do you envision your social life as a couple?

We have the same idea about our social life and friends

We share some social goals, but also have our own friends

We have very different views on socializing and friendships

How do you make decisions about health and wellness?

We have the same values and make health decisions together

We generally agree but sometimes choose different paths

Our health and wellness priorities are quite different

Do You and Your Partner Have Shared Goals Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 76 | Updated: Mar 03, 2024

In any relationship, aligning on future aspirations can be the glue that holds partners together. Sharing common goals not only strengthens your bond but also ensures you’re both rowing in the same direction. Wondering how well you and your significant other align on your future visions? Take this quiz to uncover if you and your partner have shared goals and how they influence your journey together.