1. How important is physical intimacy to you in a relationship?
A. Extremely important
C. Not that important
D. Not important to me at all
2. How important is a person’s seriousness about life to you?
A. I like a person who takes life seriously and is in touch with their emotions
B. I like a person who is trustworthy and knows what they want.
C. I like a person who is a good balance.
D. I would rather like a person who doesn’t take life too seriously. Life is meant to be fun!
3. Which of these is most important to you in a partner?
B. Someone who will tell you what’s on their mind
C. Someone who is willing to make changes when necessary
D. Someone who is always fun to hang out with
4. Which of these unhealthy factors do you struggle with most often in failed relationships?
A. Partners who are emotionally closed off and don’t want to talk about feelings
B. Lying and deceitfulness
C. Lack of support and affection
D. Partners who are boring and don’t seem concerned about my feelings
5. Which of these is least attractive to you in a partner?
A. Someone who can get emotionally reactive during arguments
B. Someone who hides parts of themselves they are embarrassed about
C. Someone who is afraid to be vulnerable
D. Someone who is serious all the time
6. How important is it to you to respect your individuality in a relationship?
A. Somewhat Important
B. Not that important
C. Very important
D. Not important at all
7. Which quality is most important to you in a partner?
A. Emotional connectedness
D. Sense of humor
8. Do you think it is important for your partner to be extremely open with you?
A. Yes, 100%
C. Not always
D. It doesn’t matter too much to me
9. What have other people told you that you need in a relationship?
A. Emotional maturity
B. Trustworthiness and loyalty
C. Affection and support
D. Someone who is caring and has a good sense of humor
10. Which of these is least attractive to you in a partner?
A. Emotional insensitivity
B. Lying or sneaky
C. Shy and not very affectionate
D. Boring and no sense of humor