Which of these seems most like how your arguments end when you’re dating someone?

You refuse to bend or compromise

You say whatever you feel in the moment, without thinking before you speak

You let your emotions and bad experiences from your past control your reactions

You find it hard to work through disagreements and rarely ever find a common ground so you just shut down.

Is it hard for people to understand you or how you are feeling?

Sometimes, but I know I am stubborn

Sometimes it is hard because I react based on my past, so it might seem over-the-top to some people or confusing

I believe so, but I am not really great at expressing how I feel

Do I Seem Hard To Love Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 4198 | Updated: Jun 12, 2024

Do you ever feel that you are hard to love or have others told you that you are? If so, you may be confused by this and not know what parts of you make you hard to love and what you should do about it. It is a natural human desire to want to be loved, so when it is so hard to find someone to love you, it might spark feelings of you being unlovable or “hard to love.” And there may be some truth to that because not everyone is easy to love. To find out for sure, take this ‘Am I hard to love’ quiz to know if you are someone who seems hard to love, why you might seem that way, and what you can do about it.