We all know that trust is one of the core foundations of a healthy relationship, yet sometimes we find ourselves wondering if we can really trust the guy we are with or not. Sometimes we have had bad experiences that cause us to be more selective with our trust. Or sometimes there are just little things that seem suspicious that have us wondering if they are untrustworthy or if you are just looking too much into things.
One thing is for sure, you want to be sure you can trust the guy you are with and not have insecurities and fears. When you are in a relationship you don’t want to worry about mind games or overthinking things, so find out for sure if you should trust him or not. Take this ‘Can I trust him’ quiz and find out.
1. Are you and this guy exclusively dating?
A. Yes
B. I think so
C. I don't think so
D. No
2. Do you feel like he treats you differently than other people he meets?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. I am not sure/Rarely
D. No
3. How often do you communicate when you are not together?
A. Pretty regularly throughout the day
B. Most of the time as we talk every day
C. He is very busy, but we communicate a couple of times a week
D. It is very inconsistent
4. Does he often remember the things you tell him and seem genuinely interested in your conversations?
A. Yes, I always feel that way
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Not really
5. Does he spend a lot of time on his phone and seem preoccupied by it?
A. No
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Yes
6. Is he on dating apps?
A. No
B. I am not sure
C. Yes, but I don’t know if he still uses them
D. Yes, and he still uses them
7. Is he consistent with keeping plans when you make them?
A. Yes, always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. He is not very consistent
8. Does he treat you differently when you are alone than when you are out with other people?
A. No, he always makes me feel special
B. Most of the time he treats me the same
C. Sometimes he treats me differently depending on who is around
D. We don’t spend a lot of time with each other but he doesn’t treat me the same when we are not alone
9. What would his friends most likely say about him?
A. He is a really good guy
B. He is shy and guarded
C. He doesn’t know what he wants
D. He is a player
10. Do you feel like you can trust him?
A. Yes, I do
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Not really
11. If you call him during an emergency, will he show up to help you?
A. Yes, for sure
B. Yes, I think so
C. It depends
D. Not really
12. Has he ever revealed your secrets without your consent?
A. No, never
B. I don't think so
C. It depends
D. Yes, multiple times
13. Does he get defensive when you ask him questions?
A. No, he remains open and stable
B. No, I don't think so
C. I'm not sure
D. Yes, for sure
14. Has he introduced you to his family and friends?
A. Yes, with enthusiasm
B. Yes, a few of them
C. Yes, one of them accidentally
D. No, not yet
15. Is he inconsistent as a person?
A. No, not at all
B. In rare moments
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, totally
