1. Do you fear your partner most of the time?
2. Does your partner ever belittle you or make you feel humiliated?
3. Does your partner constantly check up on you (asking who you're with, where you are, when you'll be home)?
4. Has your partner ever threatened to commit suicide if you would ever think about leaving them?
5. Is your partner short-tempered, acting against your will because of something slightly upsetting?
6. Has your partner ever destroyed your belongings or property?
7. Does your partner limit who you can see (friends, family, children)?
8. Has your partner ever blamed you for them irrational behavior?
9. Has your partner ever physically assaulted you?
10. Does your partner use abusive language when you both get into an argument?
11. Do they always blame you for everything wrong happening with them?
12. Do they find a way to always convince you that no one is concerned about your welfare?
13. Is there a cycle of explosive attitude where they shower you with love and affection after an outburst?
14. Does your partner insult or mimic you?
15. Are you always extra-careful about your activities, speech, and the like?