Are You In An Abusive Relationship Quiz

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19 Questions | Total Attempts: 12574 | Updated: Oct 09, 2025

1. Does your partner use abusive language when you argue?


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Are You In An Abusive Relationship Quiz
Relationships should make you feel safe, valued, and respected. But sometimes, unhealthy patterns can creep in—and it can be hard to tell the difference between normal ups and downs and something more harmful. Abuse isn't always physical; it ca... see more
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2. Do you feel like you have to hide aspects of your life (friends, opinions, achievements) from your partner to avoid conflict?


3. Does your partner pressure you into sexual activity when you're not comfortable?


4. Does your partner make you feel guilty for spending time on hobbies, work, or personal interests?


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6. Does your partner control how you spend your money or require you to justify every expense?


7. Are you always extra-careful about your activities, speech, and behavior around them?


8. Does your partner insult or mimic you?


9. Is there a cycle where they become very affectionate after an outburst?


10. Do they try to convince you that no one else cares about you?


11. Do they always blame you for everything wrong happening with them?


12. Do you fear your partner most of the time?


13. Has your partner ever physically assaulted you?


14. Has your partner ever blamed you for them irrational behavior?


15. Does your partner limit who you can see (friends, family, children)?


16. Has your partner ever destroyed your belongings or property?


17. Is your partner short-tempered, acting against your will because of something slightly upsetting?


18. Has your partner ever threatened to harm themselves if you were to ever think about leaving them?


19. Does your partner constantly check up on you (asking who you're with, where you are, when you'll be home)?


20. Does your partner ever belittle you or make you feel humiliated?


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