1. How often do you find yourself focusing on your partner's flaws?
2. When your partner does something nice, do you feel it’s genuine?
3. How frequently do you feel irritated by your partner's habits?
4. Do you find it hard to appreciate the good things your partner does?
5. How often do you assume the worst intentions in your partner’s actions?
6. When you argue, do you think about ending the relationship?
7. Do you feel that your partner understands and supports you?
8. How often do you reminisce about the good times in your relationship?
9. Do you feel hopeful about resolving conflicts with your partner?
10. When thinking about your partner, do positive thoughts come to mind first?
