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Are You A Good Listener Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 46 | Updated: Mar 27, 2025

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1. When someone shares a problem with you, how do you usually respond?

I interrupt with my own experiences to relate to them. I listen and offer advice when they finish speaking. I actively listen, ask clarifying questions, and validate their feelings.

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Are You a Good Listener Quiz

Listening is a crucial part of communication, but how well do you actually listen? Being a good listener means more than just hearing words—it involves understanding, engaging, and responding thoughtfully. If you have ever wondered about your...

Listening is a crucial part of communication, but how well do you actually listen?

Being a good listener means more than just hearing words—it involves understanding, engaging, and responding thoughtfully.

If you have ever wondered about your listening skills, this quiz, "Are you a good listener?" will help you evaluate your strengths and areas for improvement.

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2. During a conversation, what do you focus on the most?

Thinking about what I will say next. Balancing between listening and formulating my response. The speaker’s words, tone, and body language to fully understand them.

3. How do you handle long or emotional conversations?

I get distracted or tune out when they go on too long. I stay engaged but sometimes find it emotionally draining. I remain fully present and patient, showing empathy.

4. When someone disagrees with you, how do you react?

I immediately start defending my point of view. I listen but still push my perspective across. I try to understand their point before responding.

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6. If a friend is upset, what do you do?

I tell them to move on and focus on something else. I offer advice based on my past experiences. I ask how they are feeling and let them express themselves fully.

7. How often do you ask follow-up questions when someone is speaking?

Rarely, I usually just wait for my turn to speak. Occasionally, if I am really interested in the topic. Often, I genuinely want to understand the other person’s perspective.

8. What do you do when you do not understand what someone is saying?

I assume I get the gist and respond anyway. I listen carefully but do not always ask for clarification. I ask thoughtful questions to make sure I understand fully.

9. How do you handle distractions while listening to someone?

I often check my phone or let my mind wander. I try to focus but sometimes get sidetracked. I actively block out distractions and stay engaged.

10. When giving feedback, how do you approach it?

I bluntly say what I think without much consideration. I phrase it carefully, but sometimes I talk more than listen. I balance speaking and listening, ensuring the other person feels heard.

11. After a conversation, how often do you remember key details?

I forget most things unless they directly involve me. I remember some details but may miss the emotional aspects. I recall key details, including emotions and context.

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