Are You A Good Listener Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 46 | Updated: Mar 27, 2025
1. When someone shares a problem with you, how do you usually respond?

I interrupt with my own experiences to relate to them.
I listen and offer advice when they finish speaking.
I actively listen, ask clarifying questions, and validate their feelings.
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2. During a conversation, what do you focus on the most?

Thinking about what I will say next.
Balancing between listening and formulating my response.
The speaker’s words, tone, and body language to fully understand them.
3. How do you handle long or emotional conversations?

I get distracted or tune out when they go on too long.
I stay engaged but sometimes find it emotionally draining.
I remain fully present and patient, showing empathy.
4. When someone disagrees with you, how do you react?

I immediately start defending my point of view.
I listen but still push my perspective across.
I try to understand their point before responding.
5. If a friend is upset, what do you do?

I tell them to move on and focus on something else.
I offer advice based on my past experiences.
I ask how they are feeling and let them express themselves fully.
6. How often do you ask follow-up questions when someone is speaking?

Rarely, I usually just wait for my turn to speak.
Occasionally, if I am really interested in the topic.
Often, I genuinely want to understand the other person’s perspective.
7. What do you do when you do not understand what someone is saying?

I assume I get the gist and respond anyway.
I listen carefully but do not always ask for clarification.
I ask thoughtful questions to make sure I understand fully.
8. How do you handle distractions while listening to someone?

I often check my phone or let my mind wander.
I try to focus but sometimes get sidetracked.
I actively block out distractions and stay engaged.
9. When giving feedback, how do you approach it?

I bluntly say what I think without much consideration.
I phrase it carefully, but sometimes I talk more than listen.
I balance speaking and listening, ensuring the other person feels heard.
10. After a conversation, how often do you remember key details?

I forget most things unless they directly involve me.
I remember some details but may miss the emotional aspects.
I recall key details, including emotions and context.
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