Are You Ready To Get Married?

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20 Questions | Updated: Oct 09, 2025
1. The last time one of you faced a major stress (job, health, family), how did you handle it as a couple?

We tackled it together
We supported each other somewhat
It created tension
We mostly handled it separately
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2. When you think about marriage, what excites you most?

Building a life and partnership together
The stability and commitment it brings
The wedding and celebration
I’m not sure yet
3. How involved are your families in your relationship decisions?

Supportive but respectful of our boundaries
Sometimes overly involved
Often creates pressure or disagreements
Not involved at all
4. How do you and your partner handle time apart (for work, travel, or personal space)?

We stay connected and trust each other completely
We manage fine but sometimes feel distant
It’s often stressful or causes tension
We struggle to handle it well
5. Have you and your partner talked about how you’ll support each other’s personal growth after marriage (like career goals, hobbies, or education)?

Yes, we’ve discussed it openly
Briefly, but not in depth
Not really
No, we haven’t talked about it
6. When you and your partner disagree on something important, how do you usually handle it?

We talk it through and reach a resolution
One of us gives in to avoid conflict
It often turns into an argument
We usually avoid the topic altogether
7. When you picture your wedding day, do you and your partner imagine it the same way?

Yes, we’ve agreed on the vision
Mostly, with small differences
Not really aligned
We’ve never talked about it
8. Do you know your partner’s long-term personal dream (like a career change, travel, or lifestyle goal)?

Yes, clearly
I think I do
Not really sure
No idea
9. How do your families feel about your relationship?

Very supportive
Mostly supportive
Mixed or unsure
Not supportive / not involved
10. Do you know how your partner feels about dividing household responsibilities after marriage?

Yes, we’ve agreed on it
We’ve talked, but not fully
Not really sure
Never discussed it
11. The last time you and your partner discussed the future, did you talk about where you’d live or how you’d build your life together?

Yes, in detail
Briefly, but not in depth
Not really sure
We haven’t discussed it
12. Do you feel confident writing wedding vows that reflect your bond and shared values?

Absolutely
With some help, yes
Not really
No, I wouldn’t know what to say
13. When making important health or career decisions, do you and your partner ask each other’s input?

Always
Usually
Sometimes
Rarely
14. Have you and your partner discussed legal aspects like a marriage license or prenup?

Yes, fully discussed
Briefly mentioned
Not really
Not at all
15. Do you know your partner’s dream wedding style (big, small, destination, faith-based, etc.)?

Yes, exactly
I think I do
Not really
No idea
16. If you and your partner had a disagreement about wedding planning, how would you handle it?

We’d talk and compromise
One of us would adjust eventually
It might lead to tension
I’m not sure we could handle it well
17. Do you know the faith or cultural traditions that matter most to your partner in a wedding ceremony?

Yes, very clearly
I have a general idea
Not really sure
No idea
18. When was the last time you worked together to plan something big (like a trip, moving, or an event)?

Recently, and it went smoothly
We did, but it was a bit stressful
It didn’t go well
We haven’t done that yet
19. Have you and your partner discussed whether you want children (and when)?

Yes, we’re on the same page
We’ve touched on it
We have different views
We haven’t discussed it
20. Do you know your partner’s views on managing finances after marriage (like saving, spending, or joint accounts)?

Yes, we’ve agreed on it
We’ve talked but haven’t finalized
Not really sure
No, we’ve never talked about it

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