Are We In A Relationship Or Just Dating Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 10048 | Updated: Sep 18, 2025
1. How do you both handle disagreements or conflicts?

We haven’t had a disagreement yet
Minor disagreements happen, but we usually move past them quickly
We try to talk through conflicts, though it can be challenging
We openly discuss disagreements and see them as opportunities to grow
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2. How do they show up for you during important moments (good or bad)?

They’re not usually very present during important times
They acknowledge it, but don’t go out of their way
They make an effort to support me during important moments
They are consistently present and supportive, making me feel prioritized
3. How do you feel when you think about your long-term compatibility?

I haven’t thought about it at all
I’ve thought about it, but I’m not sure yet
I feel we’re compatible, though there are some unknowns
I feel strongly that we’re compatible for the long run
4. How do you handle finances when you go out together?

We each pay for ourselves most of the time
We take turns covering small things casually
We often split or share expenses without keeping track closely
We treat finances more like a team, planning or sharing costs naturally
5. How do you introduce them to others?

I usually just call them a friend
I avoid labels and keep it casual
I sometimes say “the person I’m seeing” or “my partner” depending on context
I confidently introduce them as my boyfriend/girlfriend or partner
6. How do you usually make plans with each other?

We mostly make last-minute or casual plans
We plan things a few days ahead sometimes
We regularly plan activities or outings together in advance
We often plan ahead and include each other in our schedules long-term
7. How do you celebrate each other's successes?

We haven’t had many chances to celebrate yet
We usually just acknowledge each other’s successes briefly
We make an effort to celebrate, sometimes with small gestures
We celebrate successes together and treat each other’s victories as our own
8. How do you both handle life's stresses and challenges?

We haven’t faced anything stressful together yet
Small challenges come up, but we usually handle them on our own
We’ve started leaning on each other during tough times
We face challenges as a team and support each other through them
9. How do you feel about the amount of time and space you have for yourself?

It's about the same as before we met; we're still very independent
I've noticed I have slightly less time for myself, but I'm okay with the balance
We spend a lot of time together, and I'm trying to find the right balance for personal space
We respect each other's need for personal space and time apart, understanding it's healthy for our relationship
10. How does this person affect your personal growth and self-improvement?

I haven’t thought much about this yet
They motivate me a little to pursue my goals
They encourage me to grow, even if it’s not always perfect
We actively support each other’s growth and celebrate achievements together
11. How long have you been seeing this person?

A couple of weeks
A month
A couple of months
More than 3 months
12. Do they call you their boyfriend/girlfriend?

No
Not yet, they usually just use pet names
Not directly, but I’ve started calling them that
Yes, they do
13. Do you feel like you can be open and honest with this person and feel comfortable and vice versa?

I’m not sure yet
I can be open about some things, but not everything
I feel comfortable sharing a lot, and they’re beginning to do the same
We’re both open and honest, which has created a deep emotional connection
14. Do you share the same goals, values, and dreams for your future?

I am not sure
I think so, but there are still things we haven't talked about
Yes, I feel that we do.
Yes, we certainly do!
15. Do you include this person in your social life?

Not really, we mostly spend time just the two of us
Sometimes, but only in casual or group settings
Yes, I often bring them along when I meet friends or family
Yes, they’re fully part of my social circle and join most gatherings
16. Have you met their friends and family members?

No, not yet
I’ve only met a few friends
I’ve met their friends and maybe a family member or two
Yes, I’ve met both their friends and family
17. Have you spent time getting to know them on a more intimate and emotional level?

Not too much
Somewhat
Yes, we have done that numerous times
Yes, I feel a deep, intimate, and emotional connection with them
18. Have you talked about the future?

Not really
Yes, but only in general terms (not about us specifically)
Yes, but mostly in a “what if” or hypothetical way
Yes, we talk clearly about our future together
19. Are you seeing anyone else, or are you still active on dating sites?

Yes, I’m still dating others
Not really, I’m mostly focused on this person
No, I’m only seeing them (but unsure about their status)
No, we’re both only seeing each other
20. How often do you spend time together?

Usually once a week
A couple of times a week
Several times a week
Pretty much every day
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