Am I The Golden Child Or Scapegoat Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 645 | Updated: Dec 28, 2023
1. How do you perceive the way your parents or family members treat you compared to your siblings or other family members?

I often receive more praise and attention
I don't notice a significant difference in treatment
I often receive more criticism and blame
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2. When you achieved something significant in your life, such as academic success or a career milestone, how did your family react?

They celebrated and praised my accomplishments
They acknowledged it but didn't make a big deal out of it
They seemed indifferent or downplayed my achievements
3. How does your family typically handle conflicts or disagreements within the family?

They try to maintain harmony and avoid conflicts
They address conflicts openly and respectfully
They often blame or target one family member during conflicts
4. Have you ever felt that you were held to higher standards or expectations compared to your siblings or family members?

Yes, I often feel I have to meet higher expectations
Not significantly, we all have our own expectations
No, I feel my expectations are lower than others'
5. How do you perceive the way your family discusses or criticizes your life choices, such as relationships, careers, or lifestyle?

They often support and validate my choices
They offer input and advice but respect my decisions
They frequently criticize and disapprove of my choices
6. In times of family conflicts, who is usually blamed or made the target of criticism?

It's often others; I'm rarely blamed
We all share responsibility for conflicts
I'm often the target of blame or criticism
7. How does your family typically respond when you express emotional distress or vulnerability?

They offer comfort, support, and empathy
They may acknowledge it but don't offer significant support
They dismiss or downplay your distress
8. Have you ever felt that you were tasked with maintaining family harmony or mediating conflicts in the family?

Yes, I often play a peacemaking role in family conflicts
Occasionally, I help mediate conflicts, but it's not a defined role
No, I'm not involved in mediating family conflicts
9. How do your family members react when you set personal boundaries or assert your independence?

They respect and support my boundaries
They may challenge boundaries but ultimately respect them
They often disregard my boundaries and expect compliance
10. How do you feel about your self-esteem and emotional well-being in the context of your family?

I have high self-esteem and feel emotionally well
It varies depending on family interactions
I have low self-esteem and often feel emotionally drained
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