Am I Sabotaging My Relationship Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 5202 | Updated: Aug 18, 2024
1. What reminds you of how lucky you are to have your beloved in your life?

The way they treats me
The way they look at me
Their beauty
Their wealth
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2. Do you listen to each other?

Sometimes
All the time
Only when it seems important to me
Only when I feel like it
3. Who wears the pants in the relationship?

I do
They do
We both do
I don't know
4. How far do you think this relationship will go?

Very far, and I think I might risk my life for it
Forever
I'll marry this person one day
Not that far, as I'm already overwhelmed by it
5. Have you introduced your lover to your loved ones?

Yes, especially my mother
No, no yet
No, I don't have the guts to do that
That will certainly never happen
6. How do you think you often sabotage your relationship?

By talking too much
By being disrespectful
By being physical
I don't sabotage my relationships
7. Who brings the most toxicity into your relationship?

My mother
My siblings
I do
Maybe my partner
8. Have you ever received an ultimatum from your partner because of your behavior?

Yes, very often
At least once a month
At least once a year
It has never happened
9. Do you feel that you really need to be in a relationship right now?

Yes, why not
Absolutely
No, I think this was a mistake
No, maybe being single is best for me
10. What do you think a relationship is?

One where two people complete each other
One where two people learn to coexist
One where you share assets to grow together
I don't really know
11. How do you react when your partner gives you constructive criticism?

Consider it carefully
Get defensive
Ignore it
Use it as an opportunity to criticize them back
12. When you have a disagreement, how often do you bring up past issues?

Never
Sometimes, if it's relevant
Often, to make a point
Always, to win the argument
13. How do you handle your partner's success?

Celebrate with them
Feel indifferent
Feel jealous
Undermine it
14. When feeling upset or stressed, how do you typically act towards your partner?

Calm and communicative
Withdrawn
Irritable and argumentative
Blame them for my feelings
15. How do you approach compromise in your relationship?

Willingly and openly
Reluctantly, but fairly
Rarely, I prefer my way
I avoid it, it feels like losing
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