Have you ever wondered if you are genuinely lovable? Has anyone ever asked you if you know how to let love in? Has anyone ever really loved you?
If you are questioning any of these things, you might also wonder if you can be loved or not. From the time we are born, humans are innately lovable. But sometimes, the ways you received love and were shown love, or lack of love, from a very early age affects you for the rest of your life.
Suppose you are not consistently loved, and your needs are not consistently met by your parents/caregivers when you are a child. In that case, you may develop attachment issues that could, unfortunately, create feelings in yourself that you are not worthy of love, inadvertently making you unable to accept or trust authentic love.
Take this ‘Am I lovable quiz’ to find out how lovable you are.
1. Who cared for you when you were a child?
2. Were both of your parents in your life growing up?
3. Do you trust your parents?
4. Do you trust people in general?
5. Have you had a bad experience with love in a romantic relationship in the past?
6. Do you love yourself?
7. Do you feel like you are worthy of another person's love?
8. Do you feel like you push people away when they get too close?
9. Do you keep yourself closed off emotionally from others to try to prevent yourself from getting hurt again?
10. Have you ever been genuinely loved?
11. Do you have friends that have been close to you for a long time?
12. What is your biggest fear?
13. Do you think career is sometimes more important than love?
14. Can you forgive mistakes that someone close to you makes?
15. Are you protective about the people who are close to you?
