Are you questioning the status of your relationship? Perhaps it has changed over time into something that you no longer recognize and doesn’t bring joy into your life anymore. So, when is the right time to end a relationship? How do you know? Take our quiz, “When to call it quits in a relationship?” to help you figure out if it is time for you to “call it quits” and move on from your partner and into your new life.
1. How often do you and your partner have date nights?
A. Once a week
B. Once a month
C. Rarely or never
2. How do you and your partner communicate when you are apart?
A. We text or call frequently
B. We check in occasionally
C. We don't communicate much when apart
3. How do you and your partner handle disagreements about money?
A. We have a joint budget and stick to it
B. We argue about money frequently
C. We don't really talk about money
4. How do you and your partner handle conflicts with each other's families?
A. We avoid conflicts with each other's families
B. We address conflicts directly as they arise
C. We don't really talk about conflicts with each other's families
5. How do you and your partner handle conflicts with each other's friends?
A. We avoid conflicts with each other's friends
B. We address conflicts directly as they arise
C. We don't really talk about conflicts with each other's friends
6. When you are upset or have big emotions, what does your partner do?
A. My partner stays with me sometimes, or they leave the room
B. My partner gets angry when I’m upset; or they yell until they leave
C. My partner holds and comforts me, and we try to resolve the issues
7. Do you give your partner space when they need to cool down?
A. No, I insist we talk it out
B. Yes, they need to process in the best way they can
C. I try to, but I want to resolve the issue
8. Do you want to stay in your relationship?
A. Yes, I love my partner and want to make it work
B. No, I don’t think I love them anymore, and we fight all the time
C. I think so, but my partner and I may need to talk about it more
9. Do you and your partner constantly have differing opinions about important issues?
A. Yes, we never seem to agree on things
B. No, we tend to have similar opinions
C. We agree about 50% of the time
10. Do you go to bed angry?
A. Never, we talk it out before we go to bed
B. We tend to fight, go to bed, and then fight more when we wake up
C. It happens occasionally
11. How do you feel when you are with your partner?
A. I usually wish I wasn’t with them
B. I feel loved and supported
C. I feel okay, but sometimes I feel trapped
12. Do you have arguments in public?
A. Yes, we argue wherever we go
B. No, we argue amongst ourselves
C. We have done this but try not to
13. Does your partner listen to your concerns?
A. Sometimes, but other times I feel they just talk over me
B. Yes, I feel heard in my relationship
C. No, they ignore me and undermine what I say when they do listen
14. Do you and your partner spend time apart?
A. Yes, we don’t spend much time together
B. We spend time apart when we need it
C. Sometimes, when it seems necessary
15. Do you and your partner talk through your problems?
A. Not really, but sometimes we will talk about what’s going on between us
B. Yes, we talk as issues arise and address them directly
C. No, we just keep our problems to ourselves
