When the same problems keep on repeating themselves over and over again in your relationship, you have to start asking yourself ''What is going wrong?''. It is true that we love playing the blaming game, where we refuse to accept our faults and blame them on the other person. But, if you’ve had more than one relationship in your life and the same thing keeps on happening, you need to find out 'why'. If you wonder if it's your fault somewhere, take this simple quiz which helps to uncover 'What am I doing wrong in my relationship?''
1. How do you express your love to your partner?
A. I just tell them that I love them
B. I hug them for warmly and they understand
C. I call them at least 4 times a day
D. I can't think of a single thing I've done to express my feelings for my partner
2. Do you always return your lover’s calls?
A. Yes, of course
B. Sometimes
C. Only when I'm not busy
D. Only when it's something important
3. How is your sex life with your partner?
A. It's fantastic
B. It's horrible
C. It's just fine
D. There's nothing special about it
4. Do you threaten your partner of breaking up every time there’s an argument?
A. Yes
B. I have to
C. Sometimes
D. No
5. How do you define yourself in terms of loyalty toward your partner?
A. I do get attracted to other people at times
B. I like casual flirting
C. My partner would never question that
D. I’m completely loyal to them
6. What do you do when your partner needs you physically or emotionally?
A. I don’t know what to do exactly
B. They should be capable enough to deal with issues themselves
C. I’ll be there if they ask me to
D. I’ll comfort them in the best way possible
7. Are you friends with your partner’s friends?
A. No, I hardly know them
B. No, I don’t care
C. Not exactly friends but I know them
D. Yes, with most of them
8. When was the last time you did something romantic for them?
A. I don’t remember exactly
B. Whatever I do for them can be termed romantic
C. A few months back
D. A few days back
9. Do you like seeing your spouse happy?
A. Yes. It makes me happy too
B. Most of the time
C. Why would I care?
D. The truth is I want to see myself happy first
10. Do you get annoyed at your spouse often?
A. Yes
B. All the time
C. Sometimes
D. Most of the time
11. Do you go on dates together regularly?
A. Yes
B. No, never
C. I don't think that's needed anymore
D. Dates are overrated
12. Do you take pictures together?
A. Yes, of course
B. Sometimes
C. You wished you did
D. Not anymore
13. Do you compliment your lover?
A. Yes, I do
B. Not really
C. Sometimes
D. Only when I want to cheer them up
14. Do you think about your partner when you are not together?
A. Always
B. Sometimes
C. Not really
D. No. I'm usually busy
15. Do you feel like getting surprise gifts for your spouse occasionally?
A. Yes, I do that
B. Sometimes
C. Only when they deserve it
D. Not really
