What Am I Doing Wrong In My Relationship Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 29364 | Updated: Oct 07, 2025
1. Do you threaten your partner of breaking up every time there’s an argument?

Yes, I often do
Occasionally, when emotions run high
No! that’s not how I handle conflict No, that’s not how I handle conflict
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2. How much effort do you put into keeping the relationship exciting?

I actively try to keep things fresh and fun
I do sometimes, but not consistently
Honestly, I’ve stopped putting in much effort
3. Do you apologize when you know you’re wrong?

Yes, I take responsibility and apologize
Sometimes, but it depends on the situation
Rarely, I find it hard to admit when I’m wrong
4. How do you react when your partner achieves something important?

I celebrate their success wholeheartedly
I acknowledge it, but don’t always make a big deal
I often overlook it or feel indifferent
5. Do you share your future plans with your partner?

Yes, we often dream and plan together
Sometimes, but not always in detail
Rarely, I keep most of my plans to myself
6. How do you handle disagreements with your partner?

We usually find a solution together
Sometimes we argue and let it pass without resolving
I often shut down or walk away without talking
7. When was the last time you did something romantic for them?

I don’t remember exactly
A few months back
A few days back
8. Are you friends with your partner’s friends?

No, I hardly know them
Not exactly friends but I know them
Yes, with most of them
9. What do you do when your partner needs you physically or emotionally?

I don’t know what to do exactly
I’ll be there if they ask me to
I’ll comfort them in the best way possible
10. How do you define yourself in terms of loyalty toward your partner?

I sometimes find myself attracted to others
I’m loyal, but there are moments I question my commitment
I’m fully committed and loyal to them
11. How do you express your love to your partner?

I just tell them that I love them
I hug them for warmly and they understand
I can't think of a single thing I've done to express my feelings for my partner
12. Do you get annoyed at your spouse often?

Yes, from time to time
Occasionally, but it passes quickly
Most of the time, little things bother me
13. Do you like seeing your partner happy?

Yes. It makes me happy too
Most of the time
The truth is I want to see myself happy first
14. Do you feel like getting surprise gifts for your partner occasionally?

Yes, I do that
Sometimes
Not really
15. Do you think about your partner when you are not together?

Often, they’re on my mind
Sometimes, but not consistently
Rarely, unless something reminds me
16. Do you compliment your lover?

Yes, I do
Sometimes
Not really, only when I want to cheer them up
17. How do you usually respond when your partner shares their feelings?

I listen carefully and try to understand
I listen, but sometimes get distracted or defensive
I often change the subject or struggle to respond
18. Do you go on dates together regularly?

Yes
No, never
Dates are overrated
19. How is your sex life with your partner?

It's fantastic
It's just fine
There's nothing special about it
20. Do you always return your lover’s calls?

Yes, of course
Sometimes
Only when it's something important
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