What’s Your Relational Attachment Signature Quiz

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10 Questions | Updated: Jul 21, 2025
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What’s Your Relational Attachment Signature Quiz

The way we connect, communicate, and respond in close relationships is often guided by our attachment style — an emotional framework developed in early life that continues to influence our adult interactions. Whether you're someone who seeks closeness, prioritizes independence, or fluctuates between the two, your attachment signature shapes how you express love, manage conflict, and navigate intimacy.

The ‘What’s Your Relational Attachment Signature Quiz’ is designed to help you uncover your relational attachment signature. By reflecting on your emotions, behaviors, and patterns in relationships, you’ll gain insight into the deeper forces at play in how you bond with others. Whether you're in a relationship, dating, or simply exploring personal growth, understanding your attachment style is a powerful step toward building healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Answer these questions below honestly. There are no right or wrong responses; only the patterns that make you.

Questions Excerpt

1. When someone I care about doesn’t respond to my message right away, I usually:

A. Feel anxious and wonder if I did something wrong

B. Get a bit annoyed but try to distract myself

C. Don’t think much of it and assume they’re busy

2. In relationships, I tend to:

A. Worry a lot about how my partner feels about me

B. Pull away when things get too emotionally intense

C. Communicate openly and encourage mutual understanding

3. When I feel emotionally vulnerable, I usually:

A. Seek reassurance and closeness

B. Bottle it up or try to ignore it

C. Talk about it calmly with someone I trust

4. How do you handle conflict in relationships?

A. I fear conflict and often try to fix things quickly

B. I get overwhelmed and need space to think

C. I approach it calmly and try to resolve things together

5. How comfortable are you with physical affection?

A. I crave it and sometimes worry if there’s not enough

B. I enjoy it but need it on my terms

C. I feel at ease giving and receiving affection

6. If your partner asks for more closeness than you’re used to, you:

A. Feel excited but nervous about meeting their needs

B. Feel overwhelmed and pressured

C. Try to understand their needs and find a middle ground

7. How would you describe your ideal relationship?

A. Deeply connected and constantly reassured

B. Independent with lots of personal space

C. Balanced and communicative

8. When you start to fall for someone, you usually:

A. Get completely invested quickly

B. Worry about losing your independence

C. Let things unfold naturally

9. How do you feel about needing your partner?

A. I often feel ashamed of how much I need them

B. I’d rather not rely on anyone

C. I think healthy interdependence is important

10. When someone pulls away in a relationship, I:

A. Panic and try harder to reconnect

B. Feel relieved and take more space

C. Ask calmly what's going on


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