1. Do you often have emotional ups and downs in your relationship?
2. Do you and your partner frequently argue?
3. Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells around your partner?
4. Do you experience periods of intense affection followed by intense discord?
5. Do you or your partner threaten to end the relationship during arguments?
6. Do you frequently feel drained after interacting with your partner?
7. Do your friends or family express concern about the nature of your relationship?
8. Do you often feel uncertain about the future of your relationship?
9. Do you find it hard to concentrate on other aspects of your life because of your relationship?
10. Do you find yourself frequently apologizing even when you believe you're not in the wrong?