1. You get negative thoughts when you think of your spouse.
2. Compared to your spouse, you're closer to someone else.
3. Does physical closeness frequently put on hold?
4. How frequently does your marriage experience passionate moments?
5. How long have you been married?
6. Do you have a routine that never seems to change?
7. Do you feel that the marriage has become one-sided and/or they feel taken for granted?
8. Do you feel that you are simply coexisting, not connecting anymore?
9. Are there things that used to be important to you that now aren't?
10. Is there an opportunity for growth and change in your relationship, or are things just... the way they are?
